While I was walking I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don’t have. Then I realize, that the happiest of all people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. Its true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
In the gateway of my heart, I put a sign that says, “No trespassing” but love came laughing and said, “I enter everywhere!” Love knows no reasons, love knows no lies – Love defiles all reasons; Love has no eyes. But love is not blind – Love sees, but it doesn’t mind. Love when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance – and you find out you still care for that person. Love is supposed that most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the thing that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. It starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.
When you love you must not expect anything in return. If you do, you’re not loving but investing. If you love, you must prepare to accept pain. For if you accept happiness you’re not loving but using. Don’t go for looks, it can deceive; don’t go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile ‘coz only smile make a day seem bright.
The beginning of love is to let those who love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit your own image – otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never to impress someone to make him fall in love with you ‘cause when you do, you have to keep that standard for the rest of your life.
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have let him go. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that we when we finally meet the right person, we should know to be grateful for the gift. We often times don’t see the reason why we don’t always get what we want, but in the end of it, all we realize that what we wanted wasn’t meant for us after all – everything happens for a reason. When we feel down because you didn’t get what you wanted, just sit tight and be happy because GOD’S THINKING OF SOMETHING BETTER FOR YOU.
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. It’s always better to have found the courage to love even if you lose it in the end rather than ever finding love because you were too afraid to face its challenge. The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it. Remember that you pass this way only once.
Love no matter how hard you find it; you won’t see it. No matter how hard you try, you won’t get it. But when you’re about to give up, it comes. Sometimes the love we are looking for is right in front of us – too close for the eyes to see. So close your eyes and let your heart see itself. There are things you love to hear, but you can never hear it from the person who says it with his heart. Just because someone doesn’t love you the ay you want them doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. There are so many stars in the sky, only some are radiant enough to be notice. Among those you choose to ignore is the one, which is willing to shine for you forever even if your glance remains elsewhere.
God never closes the door without opening the window. He always gives us something better when He takes something away. Heartbreaks will last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go: Challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them. In relationships, thank God when you’re hurting or crying. There you are given a chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the person and of yourself when you grow. You don’t become a better person because you experienced suffering. We have no right to ask when sorrows come, “Why did this happen to me?” Unless we ask the same question for very moment of happiness, that comes our way. When God puts a tear in your eye, its because He wants to put a rainbow in your heart.
There are some things that we never want to let go of people, we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world. It’s just the beginning of new life. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can’t go on well in life when can’t let go of your past, and whether they are failures of heartaches. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is to fear less and to love more.
Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or leave your heart broken. It’s because that only shows how relationships are when you are young – they are stepping-stones for the main one. Follow your heart. It might not always be right but despite the pain, you’ll have the memories that will make you smile even once and every rare while. It is better not to have the person you love right now, but have them later than be with them now but lose them forever. Love has its perfect time, seasons and own reasons. You cannot ask it to stay for a while or for long time, but you can only embrace it as it comes and be glad, that for a moment in your life it was yours. Each of us is given a pocketful of time to spend however we may. We use what we will. We waste what we will. But we can never get back a day. Don’t let each moment pass you by for within the twinkling of an eye that moment will go and the feeling will die. It might be too late when you open your eyes. Don’t be so busy planning the life you’re going to have that you fail to appreciate the one you have already been given. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want in life. We are never given dreams without the power to make it come true.
A heart that’s truly in love never loses hope but always believe in the promise of love. Perfect love casts out fear. No matter how long the time and how far the distance, never say goodbye when you still want to try – never give up when you still feel you can take it - never say you don’t love the person anymore when you can’t let go. Always remember, “TRUE LOVE DOES NOT HAVE A HAPPY ENDING THAT’S BECAUSE TRUE LOVE DOES NOT HAVE AN ENDING.”
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